All our problems are the same. This is the 156th time I
wrote this fact (for those of you).
The problem is forever, and we can't avoid it. You will wake
up tomorrow, and there is a problem with breakfast. You will jump on the train
and read the questions in your email inbox.
You will go to the office and send a question on your
beautiful face!
Here are 15 typical life issues and how to fix them:
You have not achieved your goal.
Just because you set a goal doesn't mean you will get it.
Many of the most robust targets in life require a lot of experimentation. Some
of the goals I missed were:
• A dream career
• Girl I want to date.
• Save enough money to set up a school in Laos.
• 100,000 fans on LinkedIn
People who talk about success and personal development (even
writing for the Addicted2Success website like me) have not achieved their
goals.
The best feeling of reaching the goal is the journey to the
destination. If all your goals are simple, then you can't feel anything at the
end of the process.
solution:
Take a different approach and try different methods. Doing
the same thing over and over again to achieve your goal is a crazy definition.
Your hero will also miss their goal. What makes them stand
out is that they don't give up. The fun of goal-setting is knowing that you
will fail.
Someone criticized you.
If you want to make a difference in this world, then the
critics will step out of the closet. The more your ambition, the more criticism
you will receive.
The number of critics you have is directly proportional to
your success rate.
"I wrote a whole blog post about me and said how stupid
I was. The first day felt like nonsense. On the seventh day, I criticized and
continued writing"
solution:
You can't please everyone you meet in life.
For example, when you speak on the stage, 25% will like you,
25% will not know who you are, and 50% will think you are a jerk, even if you
may not have done anything wrong.
Critics are not all bad people. You can also get to know
your things. The solution is to learn from criticism, not to fear it.
Your career has been messed up.
Whether you are an entrepreneur or a happy office worker,
your career will be messed up at some point.
The definition of business is this: move from one problem to
another and make money during this period to advance your mission. Marketing is
just solving the problem.
Redundancy can hook your face directly.
The company you founded may go backwards or even go
bankrupt.
Your professional skills may be outdated.
You may be fired for making a mistake.
Your career will become confusing. Things that can never be
predicted in your career will happen.
solution:
Look at their career challenges: the opportunity to try
different things. If your career has never been ruined, then you may be able to
maintain a comfortable environment throughout your life without trying
different things.
The solution is to turn your career into an opportunity to
grow. Being redundant may be a reality for you to create your startup.
Leaving customers away can reduce your workload and create
space for customers who don't spend your time and have no money.
You have financial difficulties.
This crazy little thing called money would disappoint you.
"I have been rich and poor many times."
After reflection, my happiest time is when I earn the least
amount of money.
Numerous studies have shown that money is not the meaning of
your life. As human beings, we seek meaning, love and our happiness.
Money won't give you any human needs.
This doesn't mean that money doesn't matter; it just means
it shouldn't be your main focus or what you see.
solution:
Lack of money is a gift. When you don't have money, you
become both resourceful and creative.
Lack of money can help you decide what is essential and what
doesn't.
If things get terrible, then you might give priority to
feeding your family instead of buying another car that will never make you
happy. You will be satisfied with the simple things in life.
The way to solve financial problems is to treat them as
gifts and choose a meaning for your life.
You are not healthy.
Our health has become a real problem. We want to know why we
are tired, sick and have a headache. We all have health problems in some
aspects of our lives.
The health challenges we face when we are young will come
down to food and exercise. The health strategy has not changed.
Staying healthy is not mysterious, but we are becoming lazy.
The convenience of supporting applications has exceeded our
ability to perform basic tasks, rather than watching Netflix every night.
solution:
Take ownership. Don't feel sick and do something. Do some
blood tests. Changing your diet is more plant-based.
Drink more water. Three times a week, 30 minutes each time,
go to the gym to exercise. Stand up from your desk from time to time, so you
won't be sitting all day, messing up your spine/neck.
No matter what you do, you must control your health, don't
be ignorant.
The relationship is over.
Less than 1% of people have encountered "The One"
and have lived a happy life since then and have never experienced a breakup.
When either party leaves, even a 1% relationship ends at
some point.
For most of us who don't make gold for the first time, we
will have to deal with breakups and romantic trials and tribulations.
We may find ourselves in a toxic relationship for too long.
We may have been cheated at least once.
When we discover that someone "does not love us
anymore", our mind may be broken into one million pieces.
These are the reality of the human condition and the need
for us to breed and maintain the survival of species.
solution:
Finding love is to understand that love is not what. You
need to end the relationship to find true love. All breakups will suck at the
beginning until you grow and move on. Then, the solution to this problem is to
find yourself.
Once you find yourself, your heart will be ready for love
again. How you move forward depends on you.
You can try the old fashion nightclub scene. You can go to
Meetups. Or, you can start swiping left and right on several dating apps.
"Your heart is broken, don't let it stay in this
state."
You made a guy of your own.
Giz, this is an ugly fact for me.
I have been several times more than eating protein and
vegetables for dinner. Here are some to laugh (and your entertainment).
• There was a time when I tried to pretend that I might
become a wolf on Wall Street and was laughed at because I couldn't explain the
derivatives.
• I used to think that this girl liked me and tried to hug
her while we were walking to make her hate my guts.
• I used to go out with my friends for a while and threw it
on my friend's sofa after a tequila shot.
• Once I did my first public speech and messed up a
statement about my own life, I have rehearsed more than 100 times.
In the past few days, we can talk about how embarrassing we
are. We can even compare epic failures to see who is worse. This is not a game.
We will all enter the situation with the best intentions or
all the experience of the world, and still mess up.
solution:
Creating a guy of your own is a sign of courage. Courage is
the courage of leaders and actors.
Making a guy of your own is acceptance, and you may fail in
the short term.
Those who fail in the short term will eventually win
long-term victories through practice.
"The opposite of making your guy is perfect. It's a
life, and you don't think your shit will stink, you spend a whole day trying to
impress everyone, and ultimately leave a deep impression. impression"
It's okay to be an idiot of your own. What is not okay is
perfect.
Someone messed up your *dog*.
Cars, homes or other insignificant materials. None of these
messed up material things has joined you in the afterlife.
You can't bury Bentley with you (although someone tried it)
so you can drive with your great, great, great grandfather and burnout in the
afterlife.
What is going to be messed up is not essential.
solution:
The important thing is that you don't mess up. It is
essential that you take care of yourself so that you can take good care of others.
Maybe when your garbage is messed up, you will find that you don't need it at
first.
You feel that your life is meaningless.
These moments that don't make sense are the places you
explore. We are born with no natural meaning. The meaning comes from learning
who we are and growing into a person.
Your life at the age of 19 may change from a 51-year-old to
three adult children.
The quickest way to destroy your life is to believe that
life is meaningless. Lack of meaning leads to depression, carelessness, drug
use, and even crime.
solution:
If you feel that your life is meaningless, then you should
try it. Static is not the way you find the answer.
"Focus on one's self will only lead to more pain."
The short-term solution to this problem is to try to help
those who have nothing. Take time with those who kill you and get some ideas.
I have found that in my life, the essential meaning of your
life is often associated with finding something you are willing to do to help
others for free.
You think you can't go on.
We all have those days. Those deep, sometimes dark, ideas
may lead to places you have never been to.
Some failures in life are more severe than others. Some
faults cannot be resolved by list posts, such as lists with inspired doses.
If you think you can't go on, there is another way.
solution:
Seek real help. These vague ideas must be treated, and
sometimes the best medicine is to seek professional advice by calling the
lifeline through counselling or extreme situations.
Although I have never had suicidal thoughts, I have already
dealt with mental illness.
"There is a way to get out of the other side, but you
have to let go of your pride and ask for help."
Please don't do anything to become another victim of
suicide.
Every day has the same feeling.
You wake up and eat. You go to work. You eat. You went home.
You eat. Go to sleep.
If you do nothing, life will have the same feeling. It's
annoying to create diversity and shape your habits into something beyond a
fixed schedule.
When there is no purpose behind what you are doing, the
feeling will be the same in a few days.
solution:
You must find happiness in repetition. You do this by
accepting these representatives and making them meaningful. Add some varieties
by breaking your comfort zone. Set a goal and do some crazy things every day.
• Go to another country.
• Talk to new people.
• Try to learn new skills.
Even if you try something new, you must get used to some
degree of repetition. Let this repetition become a habit of helping others.
Your friend is messing up your life.
Forward them. Divorce them. Delete their number.
Every relationship in your life is a choice. People around
us often pull us back. They are full of our thoughts and limit our beliefs,
stories and goals that are meaningless.
Friends can kill our dreams or let us believe in something
we have never thought of.
Solution:
Everyone should have a second chance. First, tell you how
your toxic friends feel. Give them a chance to change new ones.
If they refuse, please take a break. Ask yourself if you
want to live in your life for a long time.
'Adaptation' is what we teach. What I suggest you do is
replace it, which will attract the right people into your life.
You feel the pressure.
In the United States alone, 77% experienced normal stress.
This young, formerly blond blogger, has recently learned
about the effects of stress. I had a cortisol test, and the doctor found that
the level was twice the normal range.
This stress causes brain fog, fatigue and lack of mental clarity.
Stress is also caused by what you enter into life. Choosing can be a bad thing.
solution:
"We don't need more; we need less pressure."
• Organize your home and office
• Refuse to attend more meetings
• Say "yes" to those who make you feel like you
are saying "Hell is good!".
• Buy something less material.
• Fewer people in life
• Listen to a podcast instead of many podcasts.
• Read fewer books instead of each book recommended by the
podcast.
• Reduce regular subscriptions
• Invest and save more money so you can reduce the pressure
on unexpected bills
• Regular breaks (used every quarter)
Fear is blocking you.
There are so many common fears - fear of spiders, flying,
public speaking, death, career change, height, and even fear of expressing
yourself.
Fear is the concept of the mind. Nothing is terrible or not
terrible. Our thoughts have made us a choice and made sense for everything.
You can overcome your fears, which is why we like to fight
terror. I have had such a famous saying about creating a list of worries and
then knocking them out at once.
solution:
Smash the fear into small pieces. Don't avoid it. Don't let
it stop you anymore. Decide to overcome every concern you have, and ultimately,
you will not be able to stop it.
Don't let the nerves trick you into thinking that you are
afraid. We all feel nervous, but we can still stay nervous - I even learn to
use nerves by using them as extra energy.
The nerve told me that I was on the right track.
I have overcome the fear of public speaking and the fear of
flying - my fear of spiders still exists, but I am studying that :)
Real fear can be overcome through deliberate practice.
Deal with the concept of death.
Last but not least, the boss of death, Li. Death is an
ordinary life problem that we cannot solve. I am sorry about this bad news.
Death will eventually take us away, and it will also appeal
to those you love.
"The solution to dealing with death is not to overcome
it, but to accept it."
Death may be our greatest motivation if we are willing. Once
you understand the meaning of death in the dark, you will appreciate life.
You will see death, not a problem, but a fact. This fact
will change the way you look at everything in the future. For me, it takes
several near-death experiences (almost murder and cancer panic) to see its
death.
Swallowing is not a natural medicine. No short blog post
like this will give you all the answers you might want to know.
The only way I think about dealing with the reality of death
is to go out and do my best to live the best life!
Use your life to do something that can bring meaning to you,
and then when you have a problem, you will no longer see death as a problem.
Peace, love and respect - Thanks for reading.
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